Drunken Blame

My boyfriend was a recovering alcoholic until I got laid off three weeks ago. He started drinking heavily that day. Am I to blame? Margie Lee Yes of course. I’m sure his drunken ass will happily blame you in some way. Fun times. So the truth is that you have no control over his actions, he's the drunk.  But the good news is that he's got you well trained for taking responsibility for his actions.