My gf was once texting me all the time when we first talked now she hardly does, what should I do? Stanley Menge See if you can find out who her side dude is. Now she has you. There's no need to text you all the time. Have you thought that you might just be boring and you need to learn to be a better texter? Sending pics of your body parts in the bathroom mirror has proven devastating in the past and could take you to the next step in your relationship.... like your next girlfriend.